What is the difference between a dildo and a vibe...

You may have just opened while rolling your eyes with this confused look on your face while thinking, "who the hell doesn't know the difference?!"
Well my friends, a lot of people don't. And actually...I bet you don't even know. And that is PERFECTLY fine. But many of you won't even admit it or wonder...and that's what I'm here for.

I will tell you what the both do first. They are both created to enhance the sex lives of men and women whether together or alone. They both let you relax a bit more and take off the pressure of the beginning stages of stimulation. And my favorite - they both are meant to open communication between you and your partner. Because once you use a toy alone (especially woman), you learn what you love. While learning, you gain confidence and then hopefully can open up to your boy toy or sex kitten.

Now for the difference...To put it simply: Vibrators vibrate and dildos don't. Period. Yea, I know, it may seem like a waste of a blog. But I bet most of you have just learned something new today! And now for the details!!

Dildos!
Dildos are created to imitate the penis. They come in all different shapes and sizes. They can be hard or soft, jelly-like or life like.
A girl in college once told me to get the size and shape you'd like...but more importantly - get the skin color that turns you on the most. Now isn't that silly? I mean unless you prefer the black penis to a white one, how can you really tell a spanish penis from an italian one? Anyhoo - that's probably a blog topic on its own. You won't be making eye contact too often with this dildo, so what really does it matter?

Vibes!
Vibrators can also look like the penis but also come in a wider variety of shapes and sizes.
Other than realistic looking, there are ones made specifically for the g-spot, bullets (smaller, egg-shaped), double shaft (the dildo look-alike with a nubby thing half way down meant for clitoral feel good-ness), butterflies, dolphins, turtles even flowers. Those last couple of buggers aren't meant for vaginal insertion. Just for pressing into the vulva. Some even come with straps to go around the thighs...feel free to wear during sex, on the train or at work (ha...ha ha...if you really do that, you MUST share)


Any preferences? Weirded out by any? Have any questions?? Little pieces of advice? E-mail me or post a comment

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