Q: What is a good toy to use as a first timer?

Well let me just first say that I'm extremely happy to know there is a curiosity out there for using toys. I promise there will be no disappointments - just many more exciting stories at girly (maybe even mister mister) get togethers.

I understand many of the toys are a little scary, intimidating and even a teensy bit dangerous looking. No one wants a trip to the ER with something stuck inside of them but I swear it won't happen if you use the toys correctly and don't go too wild.
For the misses (also couples), I have a few rookie toys in mind.
I will always ALWAYS recommend first and foremost a smaller vibe. (*shown above*) They are usually about 4 inches long and the width is about a Quarter size. Maybe even a little smaller. It's for external use only (clitoris, balls, maybe to actually massage a knot in your back) and is very discrete and not intimidating. The newer models are very attractive. (*all products shown are available for sale at partygals.biz/bedtimetoys*)



This one is small and sleek without any wires or buttons to worry about. Plus a very cute design!



There is also the tiny bullets (for external use only) that can also be used in the massage mitts i sell (HIGHLY recommeded!!!). They are so tiny watch out you don't lose them!



If you'd like to explore vibes that can be used for penetration, this one would be a perfect first try



(****important!!! if you are interested in toys for penetration, always use some sort of lube!!! whether it is lubrication bought through my site or saliva, PLEASE use something!!!!*****)

All of these are also great to introduce to a partner. Girls, let your boy toy watch you use these vibes. It's also a great way for them to learn your hot spots. These toys are small enough to hold at the clitoris during sex which is a wonderful addition to play time.
Say you and your partner use these massagers and bullet but now you're willing to try something new. Well then I highly recommend a C-Ring such as this:



C-Rings, without the little vibe on the top, are meant to be placed around the base of the penis. Their job is to make the guy last longer by holding the blood in the shaft, making him harder and even a little bigger. And what man doesn't want to look bigger? Now this C-Ring shown above also holds a tiny vibe on top for the ladies. 80% of woman can not orgasm without direct stimulation to the clitoris so this is perfect! The vibe rubs against the clitoris during intercourse making it an unforgettable experience. You can even turn it around so his friends underneath the penis can get a little vibe action also!